Dating ADD...

So the grand total so far... 114 matches... yes, that's how many I have received since January 2nd. Number of matches I have actually spoken to either by email or phone: 2. Number who have actually followed up after said phone call: 1. Anybody know what the ratio is there, I'm not great at math. Seriously? I'm so bored with this process. I have all these pending communications in various stages. Perhaps they are as overwhelmed with matches and this process as I am. I have turned the matching off for now, because the matches are becoming less and less what I would want matched with me. No offense but I think their match program is scraping the barrel at this point. I honestly don't know where any of this will lead. My gut feeling is a lot of nowhere. At least it's not all on me this time... I can't seem to even make it work with people who are at least committed to finding long term relationships. Maybe I'm expecting too much too soon. It has only been 2 weeks and the process is designed to drag out. And I'm still struggling with how to be interested without invested. I'm disappointed one great phone call was not followed up with another call or at least some sort of communication. At least the other phone call was appreciated and some follow up did occur. I guess even with help, it's all a crap shoot. Hey look a squirrel!!!!